We at Revived to Thrive understand that can seem like a long time, however, in our experience we know that healing from addiction and/or trauma is a process that is individualized and intricate, and is one that cannot be rushed.

At Revived to Thrive we coach both women and men through the impacts of betrayal, addiction, and trauma.

Within the realm of betrayal and addiction, it is not uncommon for both partners to be coached at the same time, yet individually.

Betrayal trauma is a type of trauma that refers to the pain and emotional distress that occurs when a trusted institution, loved one, or intimate partner violates someone’s trust.

There are many types of betrayal trauma, but the most frequent we at Revived to Thrive coach includes parental/family, intimate partner (spousal/partner), and interpersonal.

Definition:

Parental/Family: When someone you depend on for your needs to be met, abuses you or fails to protect you from harm as a child.

Intimate partner: When the person who has betrayed you is your intimate partner. This includes emotional affairs, physical affair, . If your spouse/partner is in active sexual addiction, there has most likely been a betrayal.

Interpersonal: when a trusted friend, peer, or individual betrays your trust.

The Fully Aligned Coach (TFAC) is a “sister” company of Revived to Thrive. At TFAC you can become a certified Recovery & Trauma Coach, join a likeminded coach community, and even look at our Coach Directory and find a different coach to suit your needs!

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We know this can either come as a severe shock or you’ve been forgiving him over and over for a very long time. Either way, the pain from this behaviour hits us at the very core level of our being. The internal emotional turmoil can paralyze us. We get it. We understand.

We cannot tell you you what to do, but let us submit to you that your healing is just as important as your spouse or partner. You are valuable. We know you need to feel heard, so we encourage you to reach out to us today, so we can help you move in the right direction.

Revived to Thrive has 98% success rate of clients who choose to engage their recovery coaching packages. Recovery and healing is hard work. Healing can be messy and emotional since we are diving deep. We end up a part of the 2% when we decide that staying the same is easier than processing through the pain, grief, and emotions of what brought us to where we are in life now.

Revived to Thrive currently only coach couples who have individually engaged their healing process through Revived to Thrive and are working towards “closing the gap” between what is and what was.

This includes:

• Build vulnerability & trust

• Open lines of communication

• Find healing for your wounded hearts in oneness

• Restore intimacy on all levels (not just sex)

• Establish your identity, worth, and confidence individually & as ONE

• Form Oneness goals in UNITY that spur revival momentum in your marriage

• Learn how to put Christ back into the centre of your marriage

• Be a part of a safe and healthy Community

and much more!

This is a really good question and one we carefully consider when someone books a Discovery Call with us. Although coaches and therapists are quite similar, there are a few differences to help you determine which would be a better fit for you in the season you are in, such as;

Coaching is a partnership. To be considered ready for coaching, a coaching client must be healthy and competent enough to co-create the coaching relationship while relating to the coach as a partner. This is determined by an ability to engage with the coach relationally and emotionally.

Having struggles with mental health does not mean you can’t work with a coach, however, if your mental health struggles debilitate you - such as you cannot even get out of bed, have a hard time taking care of yourself to the point you struggle with everyday personal care, then it’s recommended you start with a therapist. It is not uncommon for coaching to be utilized concurrently with therapy.
Coaching should not be considered a substitute for therapy when therapy is needed.